OK, I feel and I could be wrong, but I believe in my own mind I am a master at crucial conversations. This may just be my ego. I have encountered crucial crucial crucial conversations of the worst nature. I do all the stops and all the magic, with the highest level of sincerity and I dig and dig and dig for it. But I am looking to solve a crucial one that has eluded me for some time now.
I have this conversation and like I said I pull out all the stops trying to get to their level trying to see if I can even find their level, being nice, polite, straight forward, asking what I want, not brutal, but not candy, and then brutal and then candy. So it seems I have tried the conventional ignorant routes to getting through even these methods obviously have not worked. Please help with the solution. I need format, this person I am trying to reach has a thick skull and does not want to be reached on any level, so, what is the next step. I need suggestions. FAST! Like I said, I have done the nice, done the mean, (NOT GOOD) I know. I have done respect, I have focused on respect of their own issue, asked for what I wanted, made it clear, practiced the conversation. Played the game of crucial conversation chess in the mirror, and now I'm like wow, this dude has one marble rolling around up there in his skull or I need to go back to square one. So at the sake of damaging my ego, I am asking for suggestions, now here is all you really need to know. This person has a strong sense of entitlement, does no wrong, and everyone is to blame for his misery for the exception of himself. O, and A social, controlling, psychotic, so selfish it makes no sense. Please looking for serious crucial conversation help. PLEASE? Come on problem solvers of the world unite.
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